Listen, my son.
Let me tell you something about men and their women, something I know that you really need to know.
Son, after reading this, realize that how you treat your woman determines in which category you will fall.
Women are to be treated special; because the LORD GOD says they're fragile and special: beautiful and created in His own image to fulfill His purpose on earth. Son, if you think otherwise, then you don't value what God says about women, and it's almost true that you won't listen to me either.
Son, there may be 8 types of men, but there are actually three major types in this world that I will talk about below: those who praise their women in public, those who don't praise their women in public and those who have the audacity to flatter other men's women.
What I say below concerning men has nothing to do with the character on the women in these men's lives but the intentional choice a man makes to treat his woman in a certain way in public whether his woman is a "devil" or "angel".
Son, use this critique to also evaluate how I treat my woman. Then you'll know what kind of a man I truly am.
So here goes...
TYPE 1: MEN WHO PRAISE THEIR WOMEN IN PUBLIC
Under this class, there are three types of men;
(a) Those who praise their women in public because these women are worthy of their praise.
These are blessed men whose women's private and public lives speak the same language of integrity: they are women of valor and of great character.
Because such a species of women are rare today, these men are truly blessed; and their praise of their women is like pouring oil on an already deserving head.
(b) Those who praise their women in public even when these women are not worthy of their praises.
These are men of steel. They are men who choose / decide to praise their hideous women in public because it's the right thing to do.
Son, honor these types of men. It takes lots of grace from our good Lord to always say good things about an undeserving person. Honor them.
(c) Those who praise their women in public because these women coarse them to do so.
Such men, for the sake of peace, have learnt the art of beautifying sadness.
They work under close monitoring and supervision, analysis and scrutiny from their trigger-happy women who are ready to pounce on them in the evening if they dare say a negative thing about them.
Son, also realize that these men never ever say a negative thing about their women even when it could bring a lot of good - even just as an act of humor!
These men are liars, son. Avoid them if you can. They are super-hypocrites!
TYPE 2: MEN WHO DON'T PRAISE THEIR WOMEN IN PUBLIC
Now, son, let me tell you something about the other class of men who don't praise their women in public. They are of three types too;
(a) Those who don't praise their women in public because these women don't deserve these praises.
These have chosen to say totally nothing good or bad about their women. Maybe it is because of the unworthiness of their women's tendencies. Or, maybe, they're just cowards.
It doesn't matter.
A man who never talks about his woman is either a wolf amongst sheep or the lamb itself.
(b) Those who don't praise their women because they have never been taught that it is the good / right thing to do.
Son, when a man has lived all his life without hearing and seeing women praised, he grows up thinking that there is nothing like praising women.
He grows cold and incessantly unchivalrous towards women, and this is not a good thing.
Son, women were born to hear words: they're addicted to them. So a man who has not been taught in the skills of flattering his woman because she deserves it, is likely to be read in very many bad books amongst the womenfolk.
(c) Those who don't praise their women in public because fellow men have coarsed them to do so.
These men, out of a high sense of egotism, think praising women in public makes a man less of who he already is.
Son, such men think that they're better than God... Ahem... Even God praises women... See this:
Luke 1:28 (NKJV) And having come in, the angel said to her, "Rejoice, highly favored one, the Lord is with you; blessed are you among women!"
If God is in the habit of praising women in public, son, never let these men lie to you: it is the right thing to do!
(d) Those who don't praise their women in public because they have taught themselves not to.
Some men learn things along the way. See, life has a funny way of teaching us lessons, and we all need to learn the right things from it.
Son, don't be such a man, who after being mistreated by other useless women, is coarsed into saying that you'll never value a woman to the extend of praising her in public. Don't.
Don't teach yourself what will cost you the joy and happiness of your woman.
TYPE 3: THE MOST DANGEROUS TYPE OF MEN
But son, beware of other type of men - the third type - the most dangerous type.
(a) Men who have no women of their own but thrive on praising other men's women.
Oh! Son, if you ever have to be any type of man at all, don't be this one! A man who hasn't accepted the responsibility of having his own woman but nonchalantly praises other women day in day out should be known as the man who empties a fuel tank when the relationship vehicle is moving.
He crashes relationships and destroys marriages, son. Such a man, if there was any mercy in me, is better suited for the cells.
(b) Men who have women of their own but only praise other men's women.
Like their first brothers, these ones are adulterous men filled with lust and whose main intention is to steal other men's women.
They are not satisfied with their own women and are not ready to commit to make their women better.
They are greedy beasts who feast on meals they haven't prepared.
Shut them out of your life, son! Shut them out!
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Now, son, of these 9 types of men, which one do you choose to be?
Bonface Morris.
